A lot of people wake up with anxiety. Not later, after the phone or the coffee, but in the first moment of waking. A heaviness in the chest, a tightness in the stomach, a sense that something isn’t right before the day has even begun.
There’s a reason for that.
In the morning, the body releases cortisol. It’s meant to wake you up, bring energy, get you moving. For some people, it does exactly that. For others, the same physical response — increased heart rate, alertness, a surge of energy — feels like anxiety.
Nothing has gone wrong. The body is just interpreting the signal differently.
If your system is more sensitive, that shift from sleep into wakefulness can feel abrupt. Instead of easing into the day, the body moves straight into a heightened state.
So if you wake up with that sense of dread, it’s not weakness. It’s a pattern in the body.
The useful question is not “why do I feel like this?” but “what changes it?”
The simplest answer is movement.
Recently I was reminded of something very basic: wake up and move. Not in a structured way, not as a routine, just physically shifting the body. Stretching, shaking, even a small amount of movement before getting out of bed.
It’s easy to dismiss because it’s so simple.
But it works.
Movement interrupts the state. It gives the body a different signal. Instead of staying in that tight, internal loop, the system begins to settle. The breath deepens, the tension reduces, and the surge of energy becomes something more usable.
You don’t need much.
A stretch.
A shift in position.
A few slow breaths.
Enough to change the state slightly.
There are more formal versions of this. Shaking practices, breathwork, different movement traditions. They all point to the same thing: the body can regulate itself when it’s allowed to move.
But most of the time, you don’t need a full practice.
You need something you’ll actually do.
That’s the difference.
If you wake up and immediately stay still, the feeling tends to build. The mind attaches to it, starts to explain it, and suddenly it feels like something is wrong.
If you move, even slightly, the state begins to shift before the story has a chance to form.
That’s what makes it useful.
Over time, it becomes less about fixing anxiety and more about how you meet the start of the day. Instead of waking up and reacting, you wake up and respond.
It’s a small change, but it’s enough to alter the direction of the morning.

Jen May is a passionate coach specialising in female empowerment and self-expression. She is dedicated to guiding women to follow their wild hearts and discover new pathways to freedom and strength. With over 20 years of experience in the entertainment industry, Jen brings rich expertise to her coaching practice. She is certified in NLP(ABNLP), EFT, TFT(ATFT), Life Coaching(MASC), and Hypnotherapy(ABH).
Jen invites you to embrace the mystery of life, to connect with the wildness of your soul, the depth of your emotions, and the power of your unique voice. Together, you will explore the beauty of being fully alive, embracing the challenges and joys of life with an open and resilient heart. Her coaching is a profound call to transformation, to find your voice, and to step into the light of your true Self.