What’s your wild woman like? Mine is audaciously rude, assertive, and fearlessly vocal about her thoughts and feelings, radiating strength in her primal form. And my queen? Poised, dignified, and commanding respect. I relish the moments I can connect with both these powerful aspects of myself. There’s something exhaustingly liberating about stepping away from the perpetual expectation to be kind, polite, and nice all the time. By merely pondering, “What are they like?” I find myself drawing closer to these untamed and regal parts of me. It’s fascinating, isn’t it? How do you connect with your wild woman and your inner queen? For me, they often emerge in moments of uninhibited freedom, maybe after a drink or two, when I’m lost in action, or when I’m asserting my independence, like navigating a solo journey to somewhere new.
This quest for self-discovery unveils the intricate layers of our existence, urging us to summon forth more of the parts that resonate with our genuine essence, especially those we’ve stifled in an effort to meet societal expectations and norms.
Forging a Connection with Our Inner Archetypes
For many of us, the wild woman and queen archetypes represent a stark contrast to the personas we present in our daily lives. Trapped by societal norms and the expectations of others, we often find ourselves wearing masks of politeness, tempering our true desires and thoughts for the sake of conformity. Yet, there is profound beauty and strength in connecting with these wilder and more self-respecting sides of ourselves, a connection that can endow our lives with an authenticity and power previously untapped.
The Empowering Benefits of the Wild Woman
Connecting with my wild woman does more than just liberate me from societal constraints; it empowers me to face challenges head-on. This untamed aspect of my being fuels my courage, enabling me to take risks and step out of my comfort zone. The wild woman within me is the driving force behind my resilience and tenacity. She emboldens me to pursue my passions with fervor and to stand up for myself and others, even when the odds are stacked against us. Her presence reminds me that vulnerability is not a weakness but a strength, as it takes bravery to show our true selves to the world.
The Sovereign Strength of the Queen
My inner queen, on the other hand, brings a different kind of power. She bestows upon me the ability to lead with grace and to make decisions with clarity and conviction. The queen within teaches me the importance of self-respect and boundaries, ensuring that I treat myself and others with kindness and empathy, without compromising my own needs. She instills in me a sense of calm amid chaos, providing the wisdom to navigate life’s complexities with a composed and steady hand. Her influence allows me to approach challenges not just with authority but with a nurturing spirit, recognising that true leadership involves empowering those around me.
Embracing Challenges with a Dual Approach
By embracing both my wild woman and queen, I equip myself with a dual approach to life’s challenges. The wild woman grants me the courage and resilience needed to tackle obstacles head-on, while the queen provides the wisdom and grace to manage situations with poise and empathy. Together, they enable me to navigate the world with a balanced perspective, making me feel capable of achieving anything I set my mind to. This powerful combination ensures that I remain true to my values and aspirations, allowing me to lead a life that is both authentic and fulfilling.
Summoning these Parts of Our Selves
But how do we draw these powerful aspects of ourselves out in our daily lives, especially when we’ve become so accustomed to suppressing them? The journey can begin with a simple, yet profound inquiry: “What is your wild woman like? What is your queen like?” These questions serve as gateways, inviting us to delve into the depths of our character and the elements of our identity we long to express more freely.
The Power of Balance
Embracing our inner wild woman and queen isn’t about rejecting the kindness and empathy that also form parts of our character. Rather, it’s about achieving balance. It’s recognizing that our gentler qualities can coexist with our strength and assertiveness. By welcoming and integrating these aspects into our lives, we can approach our daily interactions with renewed confidence and authenticity, making decisions that deeply resonate with our true selves.
This integrative process prompts us to reconsider our lives, the roles we adopt, and the facades we wear. It challenges us to reflect on whether we’re living in harmony with our deepest desires and values. Often, it’s about allowing ourselves to be both strong and vulnerable, assertive and kind, wild and wise.
Final Thoughts
Embracing your inner wild woman and queen is an empowering journey. It invites us to live more authentically, to articulate our truths, and to find balance amidst the complexities of our identities. So, extend an invitation to them. Let them occasionally take the lead. You might just find that they bring you closer to the essence of who you were always meant to be.
Jen May is a passionate coach specialising in female empowerment and self-expression. She is dedicated to guiding women to follow their wild hearts and discover new pathways to freedom and strength. With over 20 years of experience in the entertainment industry, Jen brings rich expertise to her coaching practice. She is certified in NLP(ABNLP), EFT, TFT(ATFT), Life Coaching(MASC), and Hypnotherapy(ABH).
Jen invites you to embrace the mystery of life, to connect with the wildness of your soul, the depth of your emotions, and the power of your unique voice. Together, you will explore the beauty of being fully alive, embracing the challenges and joys of life with an open and resilient heart. Her coaching is a profound call to transformation, to find your voice, and to step into the light of your true Self.