Sometimes we’re confronted by situations that test our resilience, that shake us, triggers if you will. Recently, I found myself in such a moment, unsettled by someone else’s actions. These difficult moments can momentarily make us stumble but can eventually with a pause lead us back to our Selves.
Rediscovering Our Boldness
It took a morning of introspection and a walk to get clarity. To reconnect with my essence and the values that make me, me. Connecting with my bold Queen heart Self enabled me to reassure my discombobulated ‘parts’ of the truth, which enabled me to laugh it off and move on. A daunting situation became a beautiful reminder to ‘do me’, to live my life to the full, a reminder of what I don’t want and hence what I do want and what I choose to put my attention on. Embracing all these parts of ourselves enables us to live from the large S Self. In alignment with our deepest truths.
The Divine Queen Within
I was reminded of the ‘divine queen’ within (one of the divine feminine archetypes), a majestic presence that views life’s absurdities with a gentle, knowing smile. This regal essence, unwavering and resplendent, laughs at the challenges that seem insurmountable, embodying strength, grace, and a profound understanding that she is capable to shrug things off. We all have this divine queen within us, ready to guide us with her wisdom, reminding us of our innate power and regality.
The Symbolism of the Bird
Strangely an image of a bird caught my eye which served as a reminder; its vibrant colours a reminder to embrace my own colourful essence. This bird, much like a dear friend of mine who lives in her fabulous queen essence, symbolised the beauty of living authentically and boldly. It served as a beacon, encouraging me to radiate my true colours, to soar with confidence and grace.
Living Boldly and Authentically
Adopting a bold approach to life means crafting an existence that echoes our innermost convictions. It involves facing life’s adversities not with trepidation but as our authentic selves—confident, resilient, and vibrant.
The Transformation: From Challenge to Opportunity
As I navigated through my momentary confusion, it became clear: our boldness turns trials into avenues for growth. Embracing our true selves enables us to flourish, transforming every challenge into an opportunity to affirm our strength and authenticity.
The Conclusion: The Power of Authenticity
In the journey back to our authentic selves, we find not just solace but empowerment. Being beautifully, boldly, brilliantly ourselves is not just a defence against hardship but a light that guides us, ensuring we not only survive life’s storms but thrive in their aftermath.
Jen May is a passionate coach specialising in female empowerment and self-expression. She is dedicated to guiding women to follow their wild hearts and discover new pathways to freedom and strength. With over 20 years of experience in the entertainment industry, Jen brings rich expertise to her coaching practice. She is certified in NLP(ABNLP), EFT, TFT(ATFT), Life Coaching(MASC), and Hypnotherapy(ABH).
Jen invites you to embrace the mystery of life, to connect with the wildness of your soul, the depth of your emotions, and the power of your unique voice. Together, you will explore the beauty of being fully alive, embracing the challenges and joys of life with an open and resilient heart. Her coaching is a profound call to transformation, to find your voice, and to step into the light of your true Self.