In the quest for a balanced life, I’ve found the term “creating ritual” far more resonant than “routine.” This distinction isn’t just semantic—it’s about embracing a deeper, more intentional approach to how we structure our lives. Having witnessed the beauty of this in Bali, where the harmony between daily activities and spiritual practices is exemplified, I’ve come to appreciate the delicate dance of energy in and energy out. It’s about acknowledging what fills us up and what we give out, striking a balance between the feminine and masculine energies within us.
The Feminine: Nurturing Creativity and Connection
The feminine aspect of our being thrives on creativity, emotional depth, and connection. It’s about being fully present and immersing ourselves in the richness of life. This energy is intuitive and fluid, seeking harmony and understanding, adapting to change while aiming for emotional and spiritual fulfillment. In embracing our feminine side, we open ourselves to forming meaningful relationships and exploring the depth of our creative potentials.
The Masculine: Providing Structure and Support
In contrast, masculine energy introduces structure, order, and stability into our lives. It prompts us to plan, schedule, and organise, establishing a solid foundation for our feminine qualities to flourish. By embracing our inner masculine, we create a supportive base that propels us towards our goals with clarity and determination.
Balancing Our Energies: Harmonising Feminine Needs with Masculine Structure
Aligning our inner masculine with our feminine needs fosters a synergistic relationship that enhances both aspects of our essence. This balanced approach allows for a productive and fulfilling use of our energies. The structure provided by our masculine side enables the pursuit of creativity and connection in a meaningful way, ensuring that our endeavors are purposeful and directed.
Applying This To Life – Our Timetable
Despite the clarity these insights offer, applying them to everyday life requires vigilance. I’ve experienced the extremes of adhering too strictly to a timetable and abandoning structure altogether. Neither approach served my deeper aspirations. It was only by inviting my ‘inner masculine’ to provide structure that I could truly engage with life’s richness in a meaningful way. This balance ensures that our creative and emotional pursuits are not aimless but directed towards fulfilling our true potential.
The Wheel of Life: A Framework for Balance
The ‘Wheel of Life’ practice has been a transformative tool for me, making my diary a dynamic instrument for achieving balance. By colour-coding my daily activities, I ensure that no area of my life is neglected, embodying how masculine structure can nurture feminine needs. This method promotes a holistic sense of well-being and satisfaction.
Conclusion: The Foundations of a Balanced Life
Our approach to scheduling goes beyond managing tasks—it’s a commitment to a balanced and meaningful existence. By mindfully integrating masculine structure with feminine creativity and connection, we nurture every aspect of our lives. This thoughtful approach allows us to face life’s challenges with grace and fulfillment, honouring our deepest intentions and values.
In embracing the beauty of creating ritual, inspired by the harmony seen in Bali, we find a path to a life that is both organised and deeply enriching, reflecting our truest selves.
Jen May is a passionate coach specialising in female empowerment and self-expression. She is dedicated to guiding women to follow their wild hearts and discover new pathways to freedom and strength. With over 20 years of experience in the entertainment industry, Jen brings rich expertise to her coaching practice. She is certified in NLP(ABNLP), EFT, TFT(ATFT), Life Coaching(MASC), and Hypnotherapy(ABH).
Jen invites you to embrace the mystery of life, to connect with the wildness of your soul, the depth of your emotions, and the power of your unique voice. Together, you will explore the beauty of being fully alive, embracing the challenges and joys of life with an open and resilient heart. Her coaching is a profound call to transformation, to find your voice, and to step into the light of your true Self.