We live in a society that fetishises perfection, that idolises the flawless and the infallible. But it’s a mirage and we all know it!?! The radical alternative is of course to embrace every scar, every misstep, and every ‘failure’ as a testament to your humanity, your resilience, and your inherent worth. Saying, “I’m flawed, I’ve erred, yet I am magnificent,” is an act of defiance against a culture that can so easily diminish your self-worth.
The Strength in Vulnerability
Self-championing is not for the faint-hearted. It requires courage to stand in your truth, to acknowledge your struggles and still choose to see your value. This is about owning your story, the good, the bad, and the ugly, and still finding reasons to celebrate yourself. Your worth is not contingent upon external achievements or validation, but an intrinsic truth that no one can take away.
A Call to Action: Champion Yourself, Transform the World
If you’re waiting for permission to believe in yourself, let this be it. Self-championing is the catalyst for profound personal transformation. It’s about breaking free from the chains of self-doubt and societal expectations, and stepping into a life of authenticity and freedom. When you champion yourself, you set a precedent. You become a beacon for others, illuminating a path away from self-negation and towards self-empowerment.
Embrace this practice with boldness. Let it be a visible, palpable stance against a world that too often tells us we’re not enough. In championing ourselves, we challenge this narrative, we rewrite the script, and we open the door to a life where we’re not just surviving, but thriving.
“Yes I f*cked up there, I’m human, I won’t shame myself for f*cking up and not being perfect 100% of the f*cking time”.
Don’t Worry You Won’t Become A Psychopath!
..untethered from empathy or compassion. Or something or someone you deeply dislike or fear. Thoughts like “I don’t want to stress out and constantly be bombastic,” or “I don’t want to mirror the behaviours of those who have caused me pain,” are not just fleeting worries. They are, in fact, powerful affirmations of your inherent morality and humanity. The very presence of these concerns is indicative of your self-awareness and capacity for introspection. Far from leading you down a path of emotional detachment or callousness, these reflections are signs of your deep commitment to personal growth and ethical living. They underscore a fundamental truth: by contemplating the impact of your actions and aspiring to avoid harm, you are actively engaging with the most empathetic and compassionate parts of your being.
Beyond the Self: A Ripple Effect
By daring to love ourselves loudly, to celebrate our achievements and learn openly from our mistakes, we allow ourselves to come more into balance and we grant others permission to do the same. This is about collective awakening. It’s about creating a culture where support, empathy, and authentic connection thrive over competition and comparison.
The Bold, Brilliant, Beautiful Path Forward
Adopting a stance of self-championing is a radical act, a declaration of independence from societal judgments and self-imposed limitations. It’s a commitment to living boldly, brilliantly, and beautifully, acknowledging our imperfections while celebrating our vast potential.
Jen May is a passionate coach specialising in female empowerment and self-expression. She is dedicated to guiding women to follow their wild hearts and discover new pathways to freedom and strength. With over 20 years of experience in the entertainment industry, Jen brings rich expertise to her coaching practice. She is certified in NLP(ABNLP), EFT, TFT(ATFT), Life Coaching(MASC), and Hypnotherapy(ABH).
Jen invites you to embrace the mystery of life, to connect with the wildness of your soul, the depth of your emotions, and the power of your unique voice. Together, you will explore the beauty of being fully alive, embracing the challenges and joys of life with an open and resilient heart. Her coaching is a profound call to transformation, to find your voice, and to step into the light of your true Self.