In this life we must follow our inner ‘yes’. We must align our actions with our true desires and aspirations. This principle, is founded on the belief that trusting our instincts leads to the best outcomes not only for us but for everyone around us. While we cannot predict the future, there’s an inherent safety and strength in embracing our power and asserting our presence in the world.
The Strength in Assertiveness
Being assertive and communicating our desires does not equate to a lack of amiability or cooperation. Rather, it’s a declaration of self-respect and integrity, allowing us to remain steadfast in our paths without succumbing to external pressures to conform or please. This stance challenges the fear of living authentically, urging us to step out of the shadows of people pleasing and into our own light.
Living Beyond Fear
For two decades, I travelled an exhausting commute that did not resonate with my soul, when I stopped, yes I dropped a few clients but new clients came from all over the world. Living a life others expect of us is inauthentic and has a toll on our spirit.
The Ripple Effect of Authenticity
The consequence of not heeding our inner ‘yes’ is stuckness. This inertia not only impedes our growth but also attracts more of the same energy, fostering a cycle of dissatisfaction. Conversely, when we dare to honour our authenticity, we catalyse a ripple effect, compelling those around us to step up and align more closely with their own truths. This collective upliftment fosters a culture of integrity, where the enabling of mediocrity or complacency is replaced with a mutual encouragement to thrive.
A Call to Collective Upliftment
Embracing our power and living according to our true desires is a transformative act, one that challenges both ourselves and others to live in integrity. This shift is critical not just for individual fulfillment but for the collective advancement of society. When we each commit to living authentically, we contribute to a world where honesty, respect, and personal growth are valued and nurtured.
Conclusion: The Transformative Power of Authenticity
In essence, the journey towards a life aligned with our ‘yes’ is a courageous affirmation of our right to live fully, passionately, and without fear. It is a call to action that demands we discard the shackles of conformity and fear, embracing instead a life of purpose and authenticity. As we embark on this path, let us remember that the true measure of success is not in pleasing others, but in remaining true to ourselves, for in that truth lies the power to transform not just our own lives, but the world around us.
Jen May is a passionate coach specialising in female empowerment and self-expression. She is dedicated to guiding women to follow their wild hearts and discover new pathways to freedom and strength. With over 20 years of experience in the entertainment industry, Jen brings rich expertise to her coaching practice. She is certified in NLP(ABNLP), EFT, TFT(ATFT), Life Coaching(MASC), and Hypnotherapy(ABH).
Jen invites you to embrace the mystery of life, to connect with the wildness of your soul, the depth of your emotions, and the power of your unique voice. Together, you will explore the beauty of being fully alive, embracing the challenges and joys of life with an open and resilient heart. Her coaching is a profound call to transformation, to find your voice, and to step into the light of your true Self.